How organized is your student?
Believe it or not, most students will begin
the school year in August. With that in mind, it seems
appropriate to write about student organizing. Every parent
would love to have an organized student. Why? An organized
student:
Doesn’t this sound delightful? However, no
kid is perfect and no student can be that "in control".
However, a little help with getting their systems set up and
creating a way that they can be better organized will allow them
to have better control over their space, time, and school work.
In the book, "The Organized Student", by
Donna Goldberg, she talks about how a parent set up a system for
her daughter that was very logical and easy for the parent. In
a very short amount of time, the parent realized that her
daughter wasn’t using the neatly compiled folders and dividers.
It made no sense what-so-ever to her daughter. The student
needs to participate in creating the solutions so that he/she
can use them and maintain them. There is no set way to be
organized. There is no "quick fix". Find the areas that are
working (everyone has some part of their lives that is
organized) and why. Then you can start the process to improve
the areas that seem to be the snag.
Due to the fact that there are three styles
of learning, you need to find the style of learning that works
well for the student For example: the visual learner may want
everything color coded and the auditory learner needs to have an
explanation of how and why this system may or may not work.
Physically setting up the systems, talking about it, and
continuing to work with them until they have had a chance to
implement it or try it out so to speak, are all part of the
process. Not only do students need help with the physical
organizing –the locker, backpack and space at home, but they
also need help with time management or cerebral organization.
Helping the student to create a system for their backpack,
locker and their schedule are all connected and important.
If you are concerned about how well your
child is performing in school, disorganization may be a part of
the problem. Keep in mind that just because they have a messy
room doesn’t mean that they are disorganized. Some of the
things to look for in a disorganized student:
Advances in technology, overloaded schedules,
and changes in family structure can all have an effect on a
student’s performance. There is a pervasive sense of pressure
from adults and peers. Kids are drowning in papers, handouts
and printouts and some students have, in effect, up to eight
bosses. You can’t change all at once. Once the organizing
process is started, you will most likely see immediate results.
However, remember that it is an on going process and it takes
time, dedication and a lot of support. But helping the student
to be better organized can help them to be more independent,
responsible and successful, not just in school but in life as a
whole.
Being organized is not something that you are
born with but a skill that can be learned. Teaching your kids
how to keep their papers and assignments in order is teaching
them life time skills.
The National Association of Professional
Organizers (NAPO) has identified student organizing as being
important enough to merit a program that professional organizers
can present in the classroom. It is a program being created for
all grade levels and will help professional organizers teach
organizing concepts and skills. Due to the fact that student
organizing is one of my services, I have seen first hand how
being better organized can have a significant impact on a
student’s success. Start the school year off by helping them
create a system for keeping track of their papers at home,
setting up their lockers so they use them and their back packs
so they don’t become the dreaded black hole. Have a great
school year.
She is a member of the National Association of Professional
Organizers (NAPO0. In addition to assisting in clearing away
the clutter and organizing areas of the home and office, she
specializes in downsizing and staging (preparing a home for
sale). Betsy can be reached for questions at (865) 207-7295 or
e-mail at
bpeterson@space-and-time.com